Female masturbation

Let's try to shed some light on this very vast and unknown topic to many. Masturbation for women is yet to be discovered, in fact women themselves are able to discover their preference only after some time and different experiences. To follow the article we recommend you read our interesting "TOP TEN"!!!

We are sure that this article will also be useful to some of you, and will not just be a curiosity for men, and therefore we hope it can help you experience masturbation in a more satisfying way.

How women touch each other intimately...

The most common form of female masturbation is the stimulation of the clitoris, the mound of Venus or the vaginal lips by more or less light rubbing or pressure. Stimulation of the clitoris can be performed directly by rubbing or manipulating the body of the clitoris itself, or indirectly with pressure on the monscus or stretching of the vaginal lips. The glans of the clitoris is rarely stimulated directly as it is very sensitive. If clitoral stimulation is practiced in a single area for a long time, or if a single point is intensely stimulated, pleasant sensations can

ease, because the area becomes slightly numb.

It is interesting to note that very few women masturbate by inserting an object into the vagina:

Kinsey and her collaborators found that 20% of women used this method, while Hite found that only 1.5% masturbated exclusively through the vagina. Furthermore, only a small percentage of women habitually masturbate and also stimulate their breasts (only 11% in the sample studied by Kinsey).

Most women masturbate in a supine position, while some prefer standing or sitting. Other women prefer to rub their genitals against an object such as a pillow, chair, bedpost, or doorknob. As a variant, the woman can rub her genitals with velvet, fur, silk or any other soft material.

About 3% of women masturbate by squeezing their thighs together rhythmically, and some prefer water massage of the genital and perineal region. The use of oils and lotions is also quite common but is generally a secondary aspect of the masturbation experience.

As misinformation and female inhibitions regarding masturbation have diminished, the use of vibro-massagers to intensify erotic sensations has become widespread. There are different types of vibrators that differ in size, shape and design. Some are cylindrical and penis-like, others offer a choice in the type of stimulation.

The intensity of the vibration helps the woman to reach orgasm more easily during self-stimulation.

However, the orgasm caused rather quickly by the vibrator can create problems. If a woman often uses these mechanical means to reach orgasm quickly, she will not be able to appreciate the various phases of sexual excitement and the resulting relaxation. In fact, her pleasure may then decrease, leaving her feeling frustrated or restless.

The use of the vibrator must however be considered objectively as it is experienced by each individual: a toy, a "bridge", a support, a means to obtain the desired sexual response, or the replacement of an absent partner in a moment of need . The most important aspect is therefore objectivity, since the abuse of the vibrator, like the abuse of food, can be a means of masking real needs and genuine feelings.

During masturbation, other objects can be inserted into the vagina: there are plastic penises of all shapes and sizes and instruments made up of a pair of metal balls that are inserted into the vagina and cause stimulation by rolling against each other. Furthermore, the use of other common objects, such as candles, bottles, cucumbers, etc. is frequent. Less frequently used objects include the electric toothbrush, the artificial penis made of ice and the rabbit's foot which is usually kept for good luck.

THE "TOP TEN"

1) Classic masturbation

Cirimna Carollo in her "Love Lessons" (Alternative Press) writes that "most women masturbate by rubbing their clitoris with their finger". In short, contrary to what most profane males believe, who imagine female masturbation as "self-penetration".

2) Finger penetration

A variant of classic masturbation with fingers rubbed on the clitoris is that of fingers used to penetrate the vagina. It can serve to give an extra thrill in alternation or in combination with traditional fingering.

3) Without fingers

Just as men can masturbate without hands, rubbing their penis on the bed and simulating the sexual act, so women can also do it while lying on their stomach, or in other positions in which it is possible to rub the mons veins against a suitable surface, and then moving the pelvis.

4) Artificial penetration

Artificial dildos of all sizes, shapes and purposes are available in sex shops for couple games but also for female masturbation. Almost all of them vibrate, some even ejaculate hot liquids thanks to a pump, there are large ones for vaginal penetration, smaller ones for anal penetration, double ones for simultaneous penetration. The vibration can also be practiced only on the clitoris. There are also artificial "dolls" corresponding to the inflatable dolls used by men.

5) The mini vibrator

It is a very different tool from traditional vibrators and artificial dildos. I saw one that looked exactly like a lipstick, to keep in your handbag. In reality, it is a clitoral micro-vibrator. That is, to be used not for penetration, but only to titillate the clitoris. Small and practical, it goes unnoticed in your pocket or bags and can be taken anywhere.

6) Chinese balls

They are two balls (metal or plastic) the size of ping-pong or golf balls. Only connected with a thread, like Tampax, they are inserted into the vagina and the thread comes out. Inside they have a swinging weight that moves and makes them sway. The woman can keep them inside for hours going on the tram or in the office and be continuously solicited and excited, indeed, the more she walks and moves the more the swinging weights inside the balls move and she feels pleasure. To remove them, pull the thread.

7) Vegetables and other items

In addition to the toys intended for this purpose, women's imagination has no limit in the type of objects with which to self-penetrate to masturbate. The classic is the use of banana, courgette or aubergine, but also cucumbers or fruits such as pears or who knows which can be used when needed. There are those who masturbate with lemons and oranges. Then there are the candles, the broomsticks, the ornaments, the soft toys. Our advice is always to cover them with a condom, both for hygiene and safety.

8) Vibrations

Sitting on the bus seat that faces right onto the wheel is the easiest way for women who use public transportation to masturbate while traveling. But there are those who sit on the washing machine while it spins. Keeping your legs tight makes it easier.

9) Thought

It is no joke to compare women's erotic thoughts to a real form of masturbation. I quote Carollo's "Love Lessons" again:

"Females behave differently because they process arousal in different ways, they lack the social approval that males enjoy, therefore erotic arousal passes through numerous filters and censorships. In general, eroticism in boys produces desire to have sexual intercourse, while in girls it stimulates seduction, that is, the conscious or unconscious aspiration to attract boys by provoking their desire. For a boy it is enough to look at pornographic magazines to start his own sexual fantasies, while for a girl it may be enough attract a glance to satisfy his more or less conscious desire for pleasure".

The difference between man and woman leads the man to need a real tactile and visual support for masturbation (even if sometimes even his imagination is enough) while the woman is satisfied even just by dreaming, imagining. I was quoting "Piccola Borghesia" by Elio Vittorini. There are some stories there in which you see women "masturbating" excitedly all day at the mere thought of a possible adventure. In the story "Alone at home", the protagonist Lisetta has "a desire to caress herself, the same desire as every morning, when, having taken off her pajamas and before putting on her shirt, she lingered in bed, preening herself all over with her feather fingers". And then she, with her husband far away from her, fantasizes about the man who could have entered the apartment and possessed her: "There, perhaps, there, in ten minutes, she would be in the arms of a stranger; with her legs and belly exposed ". Then nothing happens, no one comes in, but Lisetta is satisfied with her fantasies.

10) Even in the case of women, there are more than 10 ways to masturbate. We haven't talked about caresses (just caresses) all over the body; not about anal self-penetration; not of oxygen regulation, not of piercing the nipples and the labia majora and minora as a form of constant sensitization of the erogenous zones... the game ends at ten. Whoever wants to continue it, please sit down.

Among the other suggested methods there is also that of female masturbation using the jet of water from the shower.